10 May What Swinging Means to Us As A Swinger Couple
The aim of swingers is to increase their bond with their partners. Openness brought through swinging enables couples to enjoy vulnerability and honesty in the partnership, in addition to cultivating friendships with other play partners and couples through shared sexual contact. Download the Blaxity App
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Quality Over Quantity
It’s not so important the quantity with others but how those interactions enhance your partner’s quality (and quantity). Taking time to really immerse yourself in each experience will allow you to hone in on one of life’s most marvelous expressions and be present in the moment.
Freedom
Sometimes knowing I have the freedom to be myself and explore with others if I choose to can be enough. Just because I have the freedom to do something doesn’t necessarily mean I will feel the need to act on that freedom constantly. I have found I am actually brought closer to my partner through this freedom.
The Spice Of Life
Just as with about anything else in life, having choices can help us learn more about ourselves.
John and I have both had the opportunity to learn different techniques through our lifestyle. We have then been able to bring home and experience with each other!
Meeting New People
Part of swinging can be meeting new people who love sex as much as we do. These people have similar interests or hobbies, including travel, food, and science fiction fans (John is a nerd at heart and has met some fellow nerds in the lifestyle!).
It’s about finding what works for you as a couple and enjoying others in your life.
The Balance of Life
We have jobs, children, mortgages, those day-to-day responsibilities that move us forward toward our goals, and that is where the balance comes into play.
Remember the “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy” quote? Well, it’s true. If we spend all of our time with our nose to the grindstone, then all we see is the stone. Likewise, if we spend all our time playing, our goals suffer. Playing enables us to stretch ourselves a bit, to run around on the playground, so to speak, providing just enough time in both places to keep the fullness of life at its maximum.
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