18 May Voyeurism at Swinger Resorts – Reddits Answers
“Voyeurism is defined as an interest in observing unsuspecting people while they undress, are naked, or engage in sexual activities. The interest is usually more in the act of watching, rather than in the person being watched.” Many couples interested in swinging attend swinger resorts, and a lot of the time, these couples may just want to watch the fun happening and not physically engage with others. If this is you, then keep reading!
In today’s article, we will be asking the r/Swingers thread on Reddit about their experiences with voyeurism on resorts. Hopefully, this will help put your mind at ease and convince you to book that trip to a swingers resort!
Voyeurism at Swinger Resorts
So, we asked the swinging community on Reddit about their thoughts on voyeurism at swinger resorts. Whether it’s allowed, encouraged, frowned upon, etc. Here is what the swinging community thinks about voyeurism at swinger resorts.
1.”Most lifestyle couples welcome voyeurs, just let them know. If it is a real lifestyle party everyone will 100% respect your decisions, if they don’t, then leave! Lifestyle couples are some of the most sincere folks you will meet, and all remember how it is when first starting out and exploring”
2. “Feel free to watch but…
Don’t gawk
Don’t act like a director & request things
Respect boundaries & don’t go into private spaces
Don’t pull away from their curtains or towels so you can see better
Don’t distract (keep the noise down)
Don’t try to touch, always ask first
Don’t embarrass (applauding can be funny but safer to be respectful)
Don’t hover too closely
Each place is different, so make sure to learn the rules. For example, some places have a rope in the doorway, so people can leave the door open and hang the rope up to signal you can watch but not enter the room.”
Happy Watching
3.”There’s nothing wrong with “just watching”. We know one couple that has been in the lifestyle 10 years and only watches. They enjoy the atmosphere and are great in social settings to hang out with as well.
Depending on where you go there will be different indicators for how welcome watching is. Clubs usually have curtains or doors that people who wish to not be watched can close. Many have voyeur rooms with one-way mirrored windows specifically for voyeur and exhibition. The rope across the door usually indicates watch but don’t enter. At House parties, you’ll have to verbalize that’s all you want to do. Typically the door/curtain methods are used there as well. At resorts, if it’s in public they know you’re watching, but that doesn’t mean put your face 6 inches from them and stare. It’s a little more effort to navigate but watch from a distance or as “do you mind if we watch (join in the future).
Happy watching!!”
Many couples enjoy being watched
4.”There are so many swingers who got their start just watching. In fact, there are a lot of couples who love to watch and even some that only watch. All are welcome. It is good because some house parties are very play-centric so you should double-check to make sure it is ok to just watch. Almost all club-style parties are fine with people just watching. And there are a lot of couples that enjoy being watched.”
All in all, it seems to show that voyeurism is welcomed at most swinger resorts. Good news for you if you’re looking for a sexy holiday away!
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