09 May The Swinger Lifestyle
Below is a member of the swinger’s community experience since joining the swinger lifestyle. Her note touches on so many different topics and is the perfect synopsis of what can happen when we as a society calm down, take a breath, and practice a little bit of empathy.
This Will Change How You View Swinging Lifestyles and Clubs.
I will be happy to tell you the most challenging issue I face in the swinger lifestyle. Obviously, it would have to be the fact that I am a transsexual woman.
I must commend all of the folks I have encountered at any swinger clubs. This would include employees and the members themselves. Everyone has been very courteous and quite receptive. I think our society can be very fickle when tolerating and even accepting things outside the norm. But then the “norm” is usually “one size fits most,” and most do NOT look good wearing it, no matter how utilitarian it may be. It begs the question, just precisely, how typical is a “normal” person anyway?
At the risk of getting overly philosophical, I feel that diversity has an essential role in our society. It’s part of the very foundation of our country. We recognize that we are all equal no matter our differences, and we all have the right to be exactly as our Creator made us. Which I think is always a cause worth championing.
Whomever we are and whatever we do certainly will not always appeal to everyone, and that’s okay. But there’s no harm in seeking out and gathering with other romantic fluid people who share similar likes and dislikes.
Despite my own reasons for being a member, I truly admire all swingers living the lifestyle. It is not just about being open sexually. It is really about getting others to take just a moment and think about who they are and what makes them an individual and hopefully, in turn, reflect upon the concerns of another. My belief is that the greatest gift we have is that of each other. No human can survive in isolation from other humans and lack even the slightest hope of human contact. I think we are just as dependent on each other as we are on the sustenance to maintain biological life. Which, after all, is what separates humans from all different life on the planet.
The reception I have had probably changed my life, and that’s no small thing!
I have felt very isolated for a very long time. After taking the chance and going to one of the swinger clubs, I don’t feel alone anymore. While I may not be everyone’s cup of tea, I am not an unattractive person (modesty aside and confident speaking). The reception I have had probably changed my life, and that’s no small thing! We could talk about gender and sexuality all day long, but I think the most critical issue is just being and feeling human, flaws and all!
I guess it goes without saying, I am happy to be a part of the lifestyle and whatever loftier purpose it may serve. However, truth be told, I really just want to relax and enjoy myself, have some really great leg trembling and toe-curling sex. I hope my new friends experience the same!
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