12 May Swinging and BDSM
Swinging and BDSM are two subjects that often go hand in hand since they are both branches of the same tree and share many similarities. At their core, the principles are the same. Both swinging couples and couples exploring BDSM rely on trust, expression of boundaries, and strong communication skills. Many happy swinging couples have very open minds who like to try new things. They often find themselves wondering about dipping their toes into the world of BDSM.
BDSM and Swinging
What do leather, feet, and balloons have in common? They’re all types of fetishes, or ‘kinks.’ BDSM (or ‘Bondage Discipline Sadism and Masochism’) is an umbrella term for various ‘unusual’ sexual attractions.
If you are new to swinging, you should understand that swinging & BDSM are two sexy types of living. Yes, many people enjoy both concepts, but they are separate things.
Swinging focuses more on casual sex & BDSM tends to focus more on the power dynamic similar to cuckolding. Many BDSM sessions don’t even include full sex. Most swinging sessions don’t involve any BDSM aspect. But if you are in the swinging lifestyle long enough, you will probably come across some people that like both concepts.
Because BDSM can involve scenarios that are considered painful, or degrading, there is a lot of taboos around the subject – the same sort of taboo that surrounds swinging and other forms of non-monogamy. However, it can be explored safely and is a healthy way to explore fantasies if proper guidelines are in place.
Introducing BDSM into your sex life
If you are interested in introducing BDSM into your current swinging relationship, it’s essential to start the conversation by expressing your wishes and describing the fantasies you have been enjoying. Then talk about what your partner feels comfortable with. You might be surprised and find out that you have both secretly fancied a kinky orgy!
During these conversations, be careful not to push your partner into something they’re are not comfortable with trying. After your conversation with your partner, you will need to have the same conversation with your swinging partners. If you start exploring BDSM with regular sexual partners, it will take some of the nerves out of the whole affair because you’ll be starting with people you already trust.
Connecting BDSM and Swinging Fantasies
Bringing together swinging and BDSM can create some incredible role-play scenarios because it means you can add more people to the dynamic. You might have a fantasy involving being tied up by a group of police officers or watching your partner restrained to a bed with another man.
We would list more of those scenarios, but we are sure you have some great ideas of your own.
As you can see, even though they have some things in common, swinging and BDSM are two very different things. They can be enjoyed together or separately. It’s good always to respect other people’s choices and be considerate of the people around you, especially in the BDSM and/or swing scene
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