Swiingers Guide to Threesomes

Swingers Couples Guide to Threesomes

This article is A Swinger Couples Guide to Threesomes or Tri-sexual relationships. The problems you will encounter in swinger sex are the same as the problem with all casual sex – when it comes down to it, you’re just not going to fancy everyone. No matter how hot the scene, you do all need to be in the same mood for it to work.

 

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Things to Consider Before Swinging 

There are many reasons why couples swing. My motivation has always been the excitement, the feeling of freedom in my relationships, and the extra intensity of the sex. If you’re reading this article, you already must have some interest in trying it out. But before continuing on, we need to weed out those who are just fantasizing from those who know. You need to be able to accept the following facts of life in three ways if you’re determined to try it.

1. Some of the time, your mate will get used to the opposite sex. Don’t expect your lover to only accept their own gender for your sake. You’ll end up having to share them with someone who might look a lot like you.

2. STDS. I’ve survived because I don’t sleep around with just anyone. But it is a fear that pervades the whole experience. You should try to go with people you’ve known for a while, and unfortunately, condoms are something that is just a way of life. But there are some really cool condoms (lambskins, for example) that make the experience more enjoyable.

3. Bisexuality. You’ll have to get used to that too. You will now have two lovers, and sometimes one of them will be your same-sex. I never could understand the guys who think that their women should take to kissing and fondling each other, but when it was their turn to do something with another guy, they ended up like vestal virgins, “Not me! No way!”

4. Body fluids and excretions. If you get three people on a bed having sex, there is bound to be messy stuff that you’ll have to taste and feel and rub against. If being human bothers you. You should look for one of those plastic doll thingy-mah-bobs.

 

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Swingers Guide to Threesomes

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Swingers Guide to Threesomes

For beginners, I suggest that unless you want a three-way relationship to become complicated, you should only have three encounters with the same third person. After all, you’ve invited the person into your union just for the sexual excitement. If you repeat it too many times with the same three people, it could get just as routine as anything other sex. There is an exception to this rule – If you’re willing to share your partner with a special friend long-term, then you become what is known as a tri-sexual relationship. That entails an exceptional understanding between the participants that sex and responsibility is an uninhibited three-way arrangement. I know a few people who have successfully sustained a tri-sexual relationship for years. The good part is that these people usually part as friends. 

The best way to get started in a new threesome is to just get naked in a darkened room (not too dark) and climb into bed with each other. I suggest lying side by side with the single-gender in the middle. If you are experienced swingers with a new inexperienced partner, you should make that person understand that he or she is here for both of you. Reading some sexy stories about swinging, threesomes, and cuckolding can also help start the passion.

Setting the Pace is Important

I suggest that the single swinger in the threesome be the one to pace the experience. If the woman is the single-gender she needs to tell both men that it is their job to please her. She needs to make the men comfortable with the fact that they are naked and that their bodies and body parts are going to touch and be rubbed against by each other during this sexual encounter.

The same thing applies when there is one man and two women. His job is to get his partners comfortable with acting out in front of him. They need to understand that he wants them to be satisfied with each other and not be hung up about touching and feeling each other.

In the case of two men and one woman, I suggest beginning with both men concentrating on the woman. While one kisses her upper portions the other can focus on her lower extremities. This builds a bond between the men. When in a first time in this combination, it is proper etiquette for the couple to let the new man have at the woman first. This should include penetration, although it doesn’t need completion. This sex act will go a long way to breaking the ice and dispelling the awkwardness of the first time together.

 

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