16 May Swinger Threesomes – Watching Your Partner With Another
Swinger threesomes – watching your partner with another can lead to a bunch of mixed emotions that can be hard to navigate through. Whether you are just curious about the Lifestyle, or have already dipped your toes in the sexy lake of swinging, you need to communicate your thoughts and feelings to your partner.
Watching Your Partner With Someone Else
Many people curious about swinging start off by introducing a third person to the equation in the form of a threesome. Often, swinger couples might find themselves wondering how they will feel when they see their partner with someone else. The thing that makes a swinger couple successful in swinging is learning the art of compersion. Compersion is essentially the opposite of jealousy. It is a positive emotional reaction to a loved one’s other relationship.
You need to talk about your partner about how you feel because these emotions of jealousy might come up when watching your partner engage in a sexual act with another. Successful swingers watch their partners enjoying themselves and feel joy at sight. Swinger couples can learn new techniques and tips that their partners seem to enjoy by watching them being sexual with someone new. It gives you a different opportunity to see your partner in ways that you don’t usually see.
Focussing On What The Other Person Can Add
Swingers love to watch their partners – how they move and intimately act with another partner. It has a lot to do with your perspective and what is going on. Instead of worrying about how much your partner is enjoying themselves with another, focus on their enjoyment and what you can learn from this experience. What can the other person add to your relationship, and what kind of new things can you and your partner now try that there is another person involved.
Communicate Your Fears To Your Partner
Talking about the experience afterward is crucial. It would help if you spoke about the things you liked, disliked, what you want to try again, and what you’d rather not try again, etc. Make sure this conversation after the threesome fosters honesty. Whether or not you enjoyed the experience, you need to communicate it to your partner and see it as an opportunity to learn from your experiences.
Try not to compare yourself by thinking, ” this person is better than I am because they do X, Y and Z.” Just because your partner expresses that they enjoyed a scenario with another, it doesn’t take away from the love they feel towards you. It should enhance your experiences and your relationship.
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