Swinger Event Must Haves

Swinger Event Must-Haves

With the upcoming swinger events happening soon in New York, we took to Reddit and asked what are the swinger event must-haves!

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Swinger Event Must-Haves

 

Swinger Event Must-Haves 

Here are some personal opinions from experienced swingers on what their swinger event must-haves are! 

What are yours?

“Over the years I’ve been to some awful events, poorly run, low quality, overpriced. There are certain things I expect when I attend any event (as I often go to conferences for my vanilla life) and it seems to me that lifestyle events are always just that little bit shit.

MUST

  • Day time stuff; if you’re going to have a pool party then get a decent DJ, lights, AV set up, games, and ways for people to mingle

  • Night time stuff; if you’re going to have a theme then fucking decorate and arrange entertainment to that theme! Don’t say it’s galactic night and then have the same ballroom set up as the night before when it was school girls and kink night…

  • Staff; pay your fucking staff to be competent, not just volunteers. Actual security companies, waitstaff, playroom attendees & entertainment

  • Playroom; don’t just throw beds on the ground, put some effort into the sensual aspect of it, design the playroom with as much thought as it deserves

  • Mingle Events; create some mingle events, game hour to give people an opportunity to mingle rather than being left to their own devices

NICE

  • Goodie bags; fill them with useful stuff not just brochures

  • Food; consider having some good food and beverage options”

 

“Security & cleanliness are big for us. We want play spaces regularly cleaned in between people. Good security controls who gets inside and also making sure no one snaps pictures of others. We also like having some volume options like music in the dancing area but also areas where you can talk without needing to yell. If there are portable stripper poles, that are properly installed & anchored, we’ve seen too many accidents.

Nice when organizers do contests (door decorating, scavenger hunts, dancing, etc) since it tends to motivate guests to be more involved and greatly improves the atmosphere. We prefer more games/mingling & fewer seminars. Some pop-up adult stores or demonstrations of the expensive toys (Sybian, motor bunny, etc) are also nice but not needed.

Goodie bags are less important to us. Would rather the money is spent providing a choice of high-quality condoms in the play areas, cases of water, plenty of towels, and even more towels.”

 

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