24 May Swinger Body Language
Swinger body langugage is an important aspect in understanding communication within the swinging community. Between 50-70% of communication is done through non-verbal communication. Body language is so important that even when texting, we cannot help using emojis and gifs. It provides that extra piece of information that delivers or emphasizes the meaning of what has been said.
We think of body language as more sincere and revealing than verbal means of communication, which is why we often trust it more than words.
Swinger Body Language
Picking up on body language cues in swinging allows you to better understand the other couple. Body language can be handy for recognizing the signs of mutual attraction, comfort, and pleasure while swinging. It is also convenient for spotting potential shyness, dishonesty, or insecurity.
Specific body signals are used intentionally, and others can happen without meaning to. This means that some are used to convey a particular message on purpose, and some are just accidentally revealing.
Eye Contact
Locking eyes for more than a glance is usually a sign of interest in someone. Long and steady eye contact usually comes with another non-verbal signal to convey appeal. It is usually an expression of passion and desire.
Difficulties in maintaining eye contact can reveal shyness, intimidation, or insecurity. On some occasions, a person may look away on purpose and not look back to signal they are uncomfortable, or it may also signal the lack of attraction.
Body Posture and Physical Proximity
How you hold yourself and the amount of space you take up can reveal things about your confidence. Standing tall, with shoulders back and head up, is typically an expression of confidence. On the other side, shrinking the body to take up less space usually indicates shyness, discomfort, or lack of confidence.
These people are likely to wait for someone else to approach them. Unlike the first group, they are not looking to be noticed. They are more likely to feel comfortable in a more personal, one-on-one setting.
Hands and Touch
A warm and firm handshake, with steady eye contact, can signal confidence and openness. Clammy or sweaty hands usually show nervousness or excitement. Double clasp handhold, usually used by men, where you put your other hand over the handshake, aims to signal warmth and comfort another person can find in you. It is a version of a handshake that can say: “You are safe with me” or, “I will take good care of you.”
Nail-biting or picking is usually a sign of low self-esteem or anxiety. This habit reduces the tension created by fear or too much excitement. Playing with something in their hands – a cigarette, a glass, or a cellphone, can be a sign of nervousness. However, it can also be something that helps a person focus if they otherwise have attention challenges.
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