08 May The Rules of Swinger Events
Below is a compiled list of the rules of swinger events. These rules will ensure everything runs smoothly and safely for you and everyone else attending the swinger party.
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RSVP – Confirm attendance
Many swinger’s clubs or private parties won’t let you in otherwise. Especially if it’s in someone’s home, it’s common courtesy to let them know you’re coming. There’s a balance of guests that the organizers need to consider when organizing the swinger event.
Ask can you bring anything
If it’s a party in someone’s house, bring a bottle of wine or some nibbles. Don’t show up empty-handed, especially to an intimate swinger party.
Find out the dress code
You’re going to feel uncomfortable wearing jeans if everyone else is wearing nothing but expensive lingerie and heels. Read the rules of the party. If you’re going to a swinger event, a club, or a well-organized party, you will be told the rules to attend. Read them and stick to them. If it’s an intimate gathering, talk about your boundaries and limitations.
Don’t bring lots of valuables
I’m not saying that all swinger’s clubs are seedy, but don’t leave your handbag or wallet crammed with cash unattended in a nightclub. Arrive newly showered wearing nice-smelling clothes. Who will want to have sex with you if you don’t smell good?
Wear sexy lingerie
Your old grey granny pants aren’t exactly going to turn heads. Wearing some sexy lingerie will give you confidence and, consequently, enjoy your experience more.
Use protection
In most swinger clubs, if you don’t use a condom, you can’t participate in any sexual activity with others. Would you really want to be in a club that allows unsafe sex? Be considerate of the other swinger couples and make sure to get yourself tested regularly.
Watch the liquor
You need good judgment if it’s your first time swinging. You need to be able to read your partner’s body language. As well as that, not being able to handle your drink is unattractive. You wouldn’t want to have sex with someone who looks like they’re about to vomit. Set a limit with your partner on how much each of you will drink.
Be punctual
Swinger parties move into different moods as the night progresses. It’s all part of the warm-up for people to meet with their clothes on. Showing up on time is not only polite, but it will increase your stimulation throughout the evening.
No ‘tickets.’
A ‘ticket’ is regarded as someone you aren’t involved with, such as a friend, that you bring along purely to get in. Some swinger clubs only allow couples. Walk in, socialize together, and leave together. Don’t just abandon each other once you’re through the front door.
Don’t ‘take one for the team’.
It’s important to make sure that both parties are attracted to the person or people they plan on sleeping with. Discuss having a code word with your partner for when you’re not feeling it with a certain person or swinger couple.
Don’t worry about being nervous! Everyone is their first time. Most swinger’s clubs are welcoming places with friendly people, and everyone has a bit of a laugh along with the sex.
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