06 May Lessons Swinger Couples can Teach Monogamous Couples
While the swinger’s lifestyle isn’t for everyone, there are many lessons swinger couples can teach monogamous couples a thing or two about. There are certain things you just have to do right if you are in a swinging relationship. For some reason, monogamous couples struggle to solve these issues. Here is where we can learn something from swinger couples and their values.
Many couples say that swinging revitalized their relationship. This is thanks to the lessons learned by partner-swapping experiences at swinger events.
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Lessons Swinger Couples can Teach Monogomous Couples: Honesty
Swinging calls for trust between partners. Lying is not tolerated. Couples find that they become more honest and open with their feelings and desires once they enter the swinger life. Complete transparency can lead to a stronger relationship that’s healthy enough to thrive as a swinger couple.
Lessons Swinger Couples can Teach Monogomous Couples: Communication
Along with that honesty, you are likely to find yourself communicating better about all aspects of your life, even things not relating to your relationship. We all know that resolutions for arising issues can only be handled with open and honest communication between both parties. Still, despite that, there are sure to be plenty of sexual adventures to share along the way, too.
Lessons Swinger Couples can Teach Monogomous Couples: Prioritizing
The act of sharing your partner with others will undoubtedly keep you mindful of your love and adoration for them. Never put your partner in second place. Be sure and take the time to balance playtime, career, and home by staying in touch with your ‘real world’ endeavors. Your partner should never feel like you’re too busy for them.
Lessons Swinger Couples can Teach Monogomous Couples: Being Grateful.
Not everyone has a partner willing to embrace the swinger’s lifestyle. If you do, you will see them in a new light! Being grateful for your life together and all that you can do. Many couples claim to have fallen in love with each other again. This is thanks to the perks that come with voyeurism, partner sharing, or wife swapping. Be grateful you have these opportunities.
Keeping Up Your Appearance
Not all swingers are hot wives, but it certainly doesn’t hurt to be mindful of your health and looks. Not only for yourself or to attract other couples but to stay attractive for your partner. You’ll also find yourself more confident when you are proud of how you look. Many swinger couples find that sharing and attending swinger events helps them keep up their appearance more than if they were in a monogamous relationship.
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Learning to Be More Giving
Each partner should have the opportunity to be selfish and allow their partner to spoil them every now and then. It’s essential to ensure that your spouse comes first. However, your needs matter too and should be on top of the list. Trying to give more than being the receiver is a powerful way to grow stronger in your commitment to each other.
Final Thoughts for Swinging Marriages
Keep in mind that it takes a solid and secure couple to make swinging work. It’s not a solution for a troubled marriage. Use the swinger lifestyle to enhance what you already have going right in your relationship, and you’re sure to see significant emotional growth as a couple.
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