How to Spot Swinger Couples to Avoid

How to Spot Swinger Couples to Avoid

Today we are discussing how to spot swinger couples to avoid. Like in any dating situation, there are some couples who will suit your situation and others who won’t. Your enjoyment of swinging dramatically depends on who you choose to be your swinging partners. Both partners get to be selective about who they choose to see and share sexy fun.

Swinger couples can sometimes hit it off straight away. However, you often need to kiss a few toads before you find the couples you are really comfortable having as swinging partners. It’s essential to know when to give a couple another chance and when to simply walk away.

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How to Spot Swinger Couples to Avoid

 

How to Spot Swinger Couples to Avoid

Before you start meeting other swingers, talk together about your expectations from the lifestyle. It’s essential that you both are on the same page at all times. Discuss what you are looking for in people. Think about the behaviors that would put you off. You must be both aware of your partner’s red flags.

Whether you meet other swingers through swinger dating sites or in-person events like your local swinger club, it’s vital that you feel confident with the information you have about the couple before you engage with them.

Warning Signs in Swinger Couples

It’s up to each couple to decide whether a warning sign will serve as an automatic disqualification or not. Choosing a couple to swing with should be a mutual decision. Just like in dating, it’s not always about what you put on your checklist, and not all the warning signs are equally important.

Here are some warning signs that most swinging couples would find worth considering.

Feelings of Discomfort

What makes us uncomfortable is unique to our experiences. No matter the reason, if a first date makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s important that you discuss this with your partner and try to figure out why you feel as you do.  Sometimes, we may not be able to explain what causes discomfort. We just feel it. Remember, you should never do anything you don’t want to do. 

Dishonesty and Lack of Transparency

People tend to hide or misrepresent plenty of things when they are dating to innocently protect their privacy. Other lies can put you at risk, like false STI results. It’s important to keep an eye on the consistency of the couple’s stories. If you feel as though you can’t trust another swinger couple for whatever reason, you should probably follow your instinct

Risky Sexual Behaviors

 You as a couple need to agree upon the criteria you feel comfortable with and the levels of risk you are willing to take when it comes to swinging with another couple. Many couples will only play with other teams that regularly use condoms to decrease the STI risk. You should decide together which couples to avoid and which couples are acceptable for sexy play.

Dysfunctional Relationship Behavior

A relationship needs to be strong and stable to handle swinging. Suppose you notice any signs suggesting a lack of trust, communication, love, or commitment in their relationship. In that case, you shouldn’t engage with this couple. You probably don’t want to add another couple’s drama to your already busy life.

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