15 May How To Keep A Swinger Marriage Special
John and Jackie Melfi are a well-known swinger couple in a consensually non-monogamous marriage. Below Jackie addresses the question, “How to keep a swinger marriage special?”
How To Keep A Swinger Marriage Special
My husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship unique. What do we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters? If we’re going on dates, holding hands, kissing, or having sex with others, what’s left for us to share?
My guttural response was, “Are you kidding me?! What’s left for us to share? EVERYTHING!” But then I remind myself that it wasn’t all that long ago that I would have and did have the same question. I shared the same belief as the majority, the belief that the physical intimacy I shared with my husband separated us from others with whom we came into contact. I know for me that I believed in this concept of intimacy was primarily based on how I was raised to view marriage.
“Our marriage is one of freedom..”
So when I’m asked how I keep my partnership sacred or special as a swinger, I tell people it isn’t just one thing over another. It’s the sum total of everything. We love each other for who we are. We share the same goals, value family, and both love to travel, work as a team in all our endeavors, have fantastic chemistry, and yes, we’re on the same page about marriage/sex. We know that our marriage is one of freedom in which every avenue can be explored.
I no longer feel shame or doubt the love I have for my husband because I look at or fantasize about other men. I know my husband loves me for who I am. I also know that if we ever decided to stop swinging, our marriage would survive and remain special because we share so much more.
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