14 May How To Approach Your Partner About Swinging
Figuring out how to approach your partner about swinging can be daunting and hard. In this article, we will discuss what kind of people become swingers and how to discuss opening up your relation and becoming a swinger couple.
What sort of people are Swingers?
The people involved in this Lifestyle consist of a large cross-section of people. Swingers come from all walks of life, in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Upon average, it appears that most couples are in their late twenties to late forties. Still, there are many other ages represented from 21 through “senior years.” This will give you an idea of what swingers look like, as ANY ONE of these people could be Swingers!
Some of the most common similarities we have observed that Swingers share include a sense of adventure, a love for new experiences and meeting new friends, honesty and an open mind, respect for others, and most of all, a solid, secure, and loving relationship with their partner. Swingers, in general, are fun-loving people that seem to enjoy life to the fullest.
How to approach your partner about Swinging?
There are two ways to go when talking to your partner about opening up your relationship and becoming swingers. The first is frank discussion – if your partner can verbalize his or her sexual desires, then talking and finding out the facts together may lead you to the best decision for your overall happiness.
If it is difficult to find out exactly what your partner thinks, a less subtle approach may be better. Try exposing your partner to the idea of Swinging through verbal fantasizing during lovemaking or watching swinger porn together.
By contacting local Swingers Clubs, you will find out about parties and hotel lounges that are meeting places for couples interested in Swinging. A visit for dinner and drinks may lead to contacts and discussions that may spark your partner’s interest in a new form of sexual adventure! I am interested in a Swinging experience, but I am not 100% sure. This makes me a little uncomfortable.
What should I do?
What should I do? Once all the facts are in front of you, the decision will be a little easier. Like anything else in life, the first time may be a little uncomfortable because you have not participated in the activity before and do not know what to do. This is perfectly normal. Contact a local Swingers Couples Clubs or hotels and explain your interests.
You will more than likely be speaking with someone who knows exactly where you are coming from because he (she) was in your position at one time. They should offer advice, contacts to speak with or meet, and places where you can go to socialize with Swingers on a platonic basis. This should give you exposure to the Swing Scene without any sexual involvement on your part.