30 Aug First Swinger Experience – Swinger Stories
Today’s Swinger Story – First Swinger Experience, is brought to you by a new couple who recently have their first swinger experience. Enjoy the story and if you would like to have your relationship stories shared, reach out to us here.
First Swinger Experience – Swinger Stories
This past weekend we finally dove into the lifestyle and had our first swinger experience. We wanted to share our journey and how we got to our 1st time with others who are currently in the lifestyle, and new couples who might be interested in joining the lifestyle so that maybe they can learn from our experience and help guide them into their own adventures.
Originally we were looking for just a single male for an MFM experience. We didn’t really know where to start but a friend of mine mentioned Reddit could have what we were looking for so I checked it out one night.
After getting a lay of the land I made a post just for general advice and the response was great! We had a lot of messages from singles and couples to the point where it was a bit too overwhelming.
Not everyone would be a great match for us and we understood that
As I got better at weeding out the good from the bad, we were able to find some good couples and singles we enjoyed talking to. Even after a while, we’d run into some conversations that would fizzle out, either they weren’t interested or we were not. Which is fine, not everyone would be a great match for us and we understood that. Also, a lot of the single guys we ran into just wanted pictures or weren’t serious, took some time to weed through them.
Another thing we felt was that single guys didn’t get that they were basically being auditioned to be added into our sex life. We got a lot of “Hi”, and/or “Hung bull” type of messages which didn’t really do anything for us. It also felt like a lot of them were in it to just get laid and please themselves. There are still a few good single guys we still talk to. We actually had so many messages that we didn’t get to reply to everyone. If you were one of them SORRY!
It was nice to see them in the flesh and talk to them face to face
We eventually settled on wanting to swing with a couple for our first time as we felt more comfortable in that setting. With the couples, we had a few of them reach out, not all conversations got as far as others. It was kind of hard to keep track of who was who and what not until we slowly dwindled down the conversations to a select few. For the most part, the conversations were great, a lot of fun flirting, pic sharing, and just getting to know each other. Which is more or less what we were comfortable with at the start. Over the course of a month, we chatted and met 2 couples for drinks and chats. It went really well we think, one couple was more experienced and the other was new like us but it was nice to see them in the flesh and talk to them face to face.
“But soon realized we just wanted to dive right into it.”
Fast forward, we eventually planned a play date with the 1st couple we met. We were really nervous but excited to dive into it. At first, we thought of just doing soft swaps or no swaps that would be more our speed but soon realized we just wanted to dive right into it and just have some fun. We booked a hotel downtown Toronto and met them for lunch before check-in. We ate, chatted about some more rules or things we wanted to try. We think that we got extremely lucky meeting the couple as they were really nice and fine going at our pace, which really opened our eyes to the lifestyle and made us feel really comfortable.
After lunch, we went back to the hotel, checked in, and went up to the room to drink and chat some more. We were really nervous at first so the alcohol helped, we slowly got ready and started to undress. We started on the bed making out, she was naked at this point and taking off my boxers.
As she was going down on me he came onto the bed next to us and started to touch her, I told her to reach out for him and touch him. The second she had both our dicks in her hand I was like “yup this is happening and it’s going to be awesome”. I told her to go over and play with him so she went to him and started to suck him off, this was the first time she’s ever been with someone else but me, and when I saw her going down on him I was on cloud 9, just watching her I was having a blast. Then his wife came over to the bed and started to go down on me. Having her go down on me while I watched my GF getting eaten out by him was insanely hot. I loved hearing my GF moan.
“I thought to myself, yup this lifestyle is for us.”
At this point his wife whispered in my ear that she wanted to fuck me, so she pulled me off the bed and sat me down on the chair. I slipped on a condom, as she got on her knees and started to suck on me some more. She eventually stood up, turned around, and sat on me. Eventually, I asked if I could bend her over the bed so she got up and went over to the bed, as I walked over with her, my GF is on the bed with her legs up and he’s just going to town on her. I loved watching my GF get fucked like that. As I bent his GF over the bed fucking her, looking over at my GF taking a pounding. I thought to myself, yup this lifestyle is for us. As it seemed we were both having a blast.
Obviously, there’s more to the story but I won’t bore you with all the details. All I can say was we had one hell of a time together. It has definitely made our bond as a couple that much stronger. It’s something we love to talk about with each other and we can’t wait to get back out there and do it again. For all the new people looking to get into it and not sure where to start or feel overwhelmed, we had the same feeling and at first, it was overwhelming but we are happy that we pushed through. We can’t wait to explore more of the lifestyle and all it has to offer.
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