16 May Advice For Single Women Attending a Swingers Club
There is a lot of fear for single women interested in visiting a swingers club alone or for the first time. Statistically, more men are involved in the swinging lifestyle. However, it is becoming increasingly popular for women who want to explore their sexual desires with other romantic fluid people. This is our advice for single women attending a swingers club.
Single Women Attending A Swingers Club
The biggest fear most women have about attending a swinger club or getting involved in the Lifestyle is the fear of how they will be judged. Being interested in sex is much more accepted by society for men than women. So, many fear being labeled as a “deviant” or a “slut”. If people are bothered by this, it’s their problem. You shouldn’t live your life for anyone else but yourself. Women can and should embrace their sexuality and the desires they have.
Many people view swinger clubs as just sex clubs where there is a bunch of creepy old dudes and crazy orgies happen. Swinger clubs are, in fact, just the same as regular nightclubs, if not safer for women. Girls get groped and hit on in nightclubs all of the time. It’s actually far less likely to happen at a swingers club because everyone is respectful. You’re not just going to have a naked man walk up to you and ask you to blow him. That sort of thing is, again, another misconception.
Absolutely No Pressure
Many women attend because they can dress a certain way and be comfortable, where they might not do so with a normal club. After all, the guys are less hands-on. (Unless you ask them not to be!) Also, you don’t have to have sex or participate in anything sexual at all. You can just dance and explore the scene. There is absolutely no pressure.
When people think about what the word swinger means, they think of sex, so often they view swingers as if they have no respect for themselves or sexuality. However, swingers actually have a lot of respect for their sexuality. They are so open about it and their desires that they genuinely respect their sexuality more than someone who denies their desires.
Bring Your Girls
If you’re worried about going to the club alone, you can bring friends and plan a girl’s night out. You won’t be the only single girl or group of girls there. Many women who come to the clubs regularly went for an event and realize d their view about swinger clubs was wrong. Most clubs have sneap-peak photos on their sites so you can see the interior of the club, which may put some fears to bed. Most employees at the swinger clubs are female, too, and can help you feel more comfortable.
Some women attend because they can dress a certain sexy way and be comfortable. After all, the guys are less hands-on. Also, you don’t have to have sex or participate in any sexual engagement at all. You can just dance and explore the scene. There is absolutely no pressure. Swinger clubs are super fun! They are great environments to be yourself and let your hair down.